I am a single female and I've recently gained a fwb (male) and his friend is also asking to have sex with me too, I am willing to do it but I have started fantasizing about a threesome with the two of them, they are both straight and I was wondering if you had any tips on how I might be able to convince them, thanks :)

To be completely honest, most men won’t need any convincing to participate in a threesome. I don’t know many guys that wouldn’t jump at the chance for a threesome with a willing girl, it’s a very common fantasy and a lot of men seem to believe women would never actually want it themselves.

I think you should talk to the friends with benefits guy first and let him know his friend is wanting to have sex with you also, and that you’ve been thinking about a threesome with the three of you. Ask him if he would be up for it, then sit down with the other guy and talk things out about what you all want and how far you’re all willing to go.

It’s extremely important that you set up boundaries, rules and safe words. Each of you NEEDS to know what’s okay and what you or anyone else isn’t comfortable with or else it will create all sorts of awkwardness and tension. Tell both of them what you’re comfortable doing and what you don’t want to even go near, tell them that if you say no, they need to stop immediately and respect your boundaries. Same goes with them, you stop if either of them say so and back off until you figure out what you want to do next.

And please, please, PLEASE use protection. It is so important, especially being with two partners. If you haven’t been tested recently, I suggest getting tested and asking them if they would be willing to do the same. It might seem extreme and you might worry they will back out or refuse, and if they do, you don’t need to be sleeping with them anyway. Making sure you’re clean and free of any STD’s is more important than you would think. I hope this helps and have fun!
-April