You should never EVER under any circumstance, let what other people are doing and think is “cool” influence you to make a decision you’re not fully comfortable with. Just because a good number of other kids are deciding to lose something so important without fully realizing the depth of consequences that one action can lead to, doesn’t mean you have to. You can be smarter, more mature and value your own self worth and wait until you’re actually prepared and want to lose it to someone who actually matters.
I’m a firm believer in not just giving your virginity away to anyone and whenever. I believe it’s something special, something sacred and not something someone who doesn’t deserve it should have. If a man doesn’t respect you, adore you and realize what a precious gift taking a girls virginity is, then he doesn’t even deserve to see her naked body. The same goes for a girl/woman. A woman should equally value and love a man whose virginity she is taking. That’s my own personal opinion.
Too much has being free and careless with your virginity become a “cool thing to do” and it honestly baffles me. I don’t know one person, not a single one, who doesn’t regret in some way having sex at a young age with someone who didn’t deserve it. I’m one of those people, I don’t regret much in life because it’s just pointless, but I sincerely wish I had waited and actually lost it to someone who truly cared about me. I wish I hadn’t been so careless and free with my body.
The whole point of this reply is to hopefully encourage you to not feed into the trend and actually think for yourself. If you aren’t ready, then stand by your own values and tell everyone to fuck off if they think making fun of you is okay. Tell them that you would rather love and value your body and share it with someone who feels the same, then let some fumbly teenage boy with no experience give you a memory you’ll most likely regret.
-April
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