A year ago, I found out my gf is regularly sexting with other guys. I was very curious back then, so started out checking on her (secretly installing a keylogger), but she found out and got very mad. I promised not to spy her again. Still very curious though, and found out her chatname. She's there way more often than she tells me. Makes me even more curious, but also kinda jealous. On the other hand, we have more and hotter sex at periods she chats more often. Why am I typing this / what to do?

This seems like something the two of you should sit down and talk about. Eve th relationship is different so there is no set rules about this sort of thing. Just let her known what makes you comfortable and uncomfortable. Although they might not be the same, relationships should have some boundries, it’s just up to the two of you to decide what they are. If you have to sneak around and spy on her, that should be a sign that something is wrong and its bothering you.
- Chelsea Lee