Hey, i have a huge sex drive but I don't think my GF understands my needs. We have been together for 4 years and we have great sex and are attracted to eachother but I have tried telling her that I need more but it doesn't seem to sink in. I'm starting to think I have problems as I can't think straight and its starting to take over my every thought unless we have sex 2-3 times a day. I don't want to go elsewhere but it's starting to cross my mind as it is starting to cause some friction

That’s a really tough one. I’ve had similar stories come through and I always ask this before anything else, have you explained to her the severity of the situation and how hard this is for you? You said you’ve talked about it once before, but sometimes that isn’t enough and you have to tell her exactly how difficult this is for you and just how much you’re needing sex.

Believe me, I know how frustrating it is when you’re with someone who doesn’t fully grasp just how sexual you are and how often you need that physical contact. It’s like an itch beneath your skin that you can’t quite scratch until you’re fully sated and being with someone who can’t keep up with you is extremely difficult. On both ends really, because sometimes the person you’re with just isn’t that sexual and they don’t have it in them to meet your needs.

I’m not saying that’s the case here, but it does happen and you should always look at the situation from every angle possible. If you talk to her and tell her everything straight up and it comes to it that she just won’t be able to meet your needs, you have to ask yourself what step you need to take next. That’s all up to you and how you want to handle things, but I believe it’s very important you tell her just how frustrated you are and be honest about everything. You can’t hold back who you are.
-April