Hey guys so I'm a girl, 16 and wanted to ask about masturbation. I've been doing clitoral for a long time but want to try vaginal. The only issue is I get down there and in business but I can't seem to actually get ... In? I feel around and all that but in regards to my opening I'm not quite sure what I'm looking or feeling for and at what angle to try and go in, and should it hurt trying to penetrate myself for the first time? I'm just looking to have a good time and wanted some advice is all x

My best advice to you is to get yourself a little hand held mirror and actually see for yourself what you’re working with down there. It’s hard to get to know your body when you don’t know what it all looks like and where everything actually is.

Once you get yourself a mirror, go online and find a close up picture of a vagina that has everything labeled for you and you’ll be able to start learning what’s what and go from there! I had this problem myself and had to get a mirror before I could figure out where my hole actually was. It sounds silly and you’ll feel a little weird at first but don’t be! It’s your body and you need to learn it the best you can.
-April